I found my wife 11.5 years ago when she was actually dating one of my friends little brother at the time. But she was getting treated like garbage and I watch and waited for a few weeks in till she friend requested me on a social media site and I accepted her request. So we talked about different things and what we truly thought about one another and about a week or so later I kind of just came out told her the real facts about her relationship. Then I asked her if we could actually have a open relationship to start out because neither one of us didn't really know the other for more then about a month, so she said yes we could have a open relationship and that lasted for around 6-7 weeks before she thought that the relationship had gone to full boyfriend/girlfriend stat. When I still thought we it was a open relationship and she was pretty much staying with me at my house but still lived with her parents and she when home for a weekend around thanksgiving and I brought home a girl that I got betted that I couldn't get her number during a 3 minute go-cart race at the fair almost 3.5 months before and then my [wife now] came back to my house late that Sunday and actually got lied to by me and most of my family that the other girl was also part of my family. Then I found out my wife was pregnant and she also decided to pack the few things she did have at my house and well the truth is she left me because I did actually tell her the the other girl was not a family member and I was sleeping with her also. Now almost a year later I decided to have her bring the baby that she had that at the time was supposed to be mine but like just about every man we think that the baby's are not ours when there is big problems in the relationship around time the unborned was conceived. My wife did bring the baby which was a beautiful little girl and she brought almost everyday for me to see for like 2.5 weeks and we also had long conversations about what had happened and what we both would like to move on from that moment and so we decided to try are luck and go for a full blown relationship even thought she was actually still in a relationship with some other male but hell I figured that I would let her break the news to her boy thing and then we could move forward with our relationship but instead I ended up staying out of the place that they both had been living together at for like almost a week and one night she was lying in bed with me and this dumbass mother f***er decides to truthfully come into the bedroom and climb in bed on the other side of my wife and wrap his arm around her and in the middle of all this he grabs my hand and holds it like he was holding her hand. Well that need to say didn't go over to well with me so I just got up and out of the bed and went upstairs to where my daughters room was and I sat in a corner till she came up witch was like within 10-15 minutes max and realized my eyes were actually glowing like she told me '"I can see bright lights in the shape of eyes just bigger on the wall on the far side of the room" and then she got over tome and told me to open my eyes and look at her for a minute and so I did that I open my eyes and she said "what the fuck your eyes are glowing blood red" and the only thing I could actually see was blood, it's kind of funny that this was the first time she had seen me go blood eye mad but at lease now she knows that when I got very over my limit with anger I start to turn blood red from the inside out well then after she got me to calm down and she told that want to be boy thing that was already told once that she was done with their relationship and this time she flat out let him hear it and also the neighbor might of even heard what she said that time, and still that dumbass wanted to keep up with his mouth stating thing that had no concern of his anyways but then he came out his mouth about my and her baby girl and literally I think she thought that I was going to actually really kill that dumb fuck so she decided to get in middle of the two of us men and push me back into the apartment and locked the door, then looks at me and said " look at that beautiful little girl right there and stay the hell inside I will go and deal with this dumb stupid asshole and call Uncle T and have him come grab us" so that's how we became a couple with a committed relationship